How to be a Good Husband - Tips on Relationships
71Every lady dreams of being with a man who truly understands and loves her for who she is. This is what women want in a man. Having been in relationships before, I look for the following qualities in a man.
Selflessness
Does he pay attention to needs of those around him? To me, it is wonderful to watch a man do for others without a thought of what they will get in return. What i mean by this is small things like holding a door open for a lady or helping a old lady across the street; to me this says a lot about what kinda man he is.
Love and Honesty
Unfortunately, the dating process is usually based on deception. The couple in question will send their best representatives while the real persons(bad habits and all) are locked away at home. Since most dates are based on deception from the start. It makes it more difficult to know what is real and what isn't. Does he love me because I'm pleasing to the eyes, or does he love me for who i really am? It shouldn't be about the packaging, but often it is. What really counts is the heart.
Patience and Commitment
Having maturity and understanding in a relationship is so important. To the ladies reading this ask your selves. Does he only come around when he wants sex? Is he available when i am hormonal and not fun to be around? Do you ladies find yourselves saying or thinking the following "I am glad we had fun a night or two ago, but It is now when i am at my lowest i need you my love the most ".
In Control and Confident
When I say in control, I don't mean controlling; a good man is a logical thinker who doesn't let a difficult situation rattle him. He is able to stay calm and cool and resolve a problem in a systematic analytical manner.
Passion and Romance
A man who understands a lady knows passion begins long before the bedroom . A lady likes to be appreciated and romanced though out the day. It don't necessarily mean buying her things. What I am talking about are a hugs, kisses, telling her how much she is loved. So to you guys out there who think I will ignore her all day and we will have sex tonight forget it; she may go along with it but you are only satisfying yourselves. Women's needs are emotional men are physical.
While it is important for a man to be employed, mentally stable, Drug and Disease free equally as important, if not more important, we ladies also want someone who understands our emotional needs.
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donnaisabella - you are welcome thanks for your comments
Very nice article. I enjoyed reading it and most of your advice was excellent.
@James A Watkins - Thank you for your feedback
Interesting article and excellent suggestions.
@Hussains - Thank you for your feedback
Outstanding hub coolmon! You hit the nails right on their heads! I will definitly read all your other hubs. Keep up the good work.
@Kate the Fair - Thank you for your feedback. I was really impressed with your hubs i read today too.
I agree coolmon,
I came by to greet you, Merry Christmas and a bountiful New Year to you and your family too,
thank you for the chnace of meetimg you here, Maita
@prettydarkhorse - thank you for the Christmas Greeting. Hope you have a Happy New Year too
Great hub. A good read for couples who want to have a good relationship.
@masmasika - thank you for your comments
I was looking for stories about love I can relate mine with and I just came right into this hub. I've learned new experiences from here. Very nostalgic for me, too.
@Lita C. Malicdem - thanks for the compliment; I am glad my article was helpful to you.
Yes, and I just used this hub as a link in my latest post. Thanks! It is my first attempt to hub linking.
@Lita C. Malicdem - thank you for the information. Hope your article is sucessful
Hi there, really well wrote i enjoyed that, i recently wrote a hubpage aswell on a similar basis? Would you mind if i linked to you as another informative page? x
@JasminRace - No problem link to it if you want; thanks for your comment on my article being well wrote.
nice topic . keep going
@sameerk - thanks for your feedback, glad you liked my article.
Great Article. I do believe it should be 50/50. Yes sadly it does not always work that way, but I do believe it can still exist. Getting to be best friends first usually results in long lasting good relationships.
@jennshealthstore - Glad you like my article, and i hope you find what you are looking for in your present or future relationships.
This is so true you've made some very strong and important points about what a women want in a man. Great read thanks :)
@katiem2 - Nice to hear form you, and thanks for your feedback :)
Hi, I agree that when we meet someone, we do hold back on our bad habits, I also think that the way we feel at the time we meet someone is completely different from the way we feel years later. i think that is why a lot of marriages don't work, because one of the partners moves on with their emotions and feelings, and the other one stays stuck in a rut and never changes. this has happened to me before. really good points here, cheers nell
@Nell Rose - I know what you mean been there done that myself. I hope you are in a happier relationship now. Thank you for sharing your insights into this topic.
nice artical. very interesting.
@Kamran100 - Thank you for taking the time to read and comment on my article.
Amen! Bad habits don't usually leave us. Wonderful job, brilliant information.
@Mizzctwoo16 - I am glad you like the article. Thanks for your comments :)
This is a great hub.Keep writing very important hubs.
@Neverletitgo - Thanks for your comments on this article :)
I enjoyed reading this. A good checklist for any man to rate themselves against.
Love and peace
Tony
@tonymac04 - It is nice to here from you as always :)
These are great qualities in a man. We ladies have to be strong to know when to keep going and when to quit (unless you're built for constant emotional roller coaster rides). voted and rated.
@Support Med - Thanks for your feedback on this article :)
donnaisabella Level 6 Commenter 2 years ago
You have a lot of good points. Thanks for the hub.